its complicated


its funny to see how relationships connect us together..
it doesn't matter what kind of relationships we are having ..
when we come to think bout this, we tend to find out that every single relationship has its own significance in our lives..

friendship among the gals :
they are those who become our refuge and are willing to spend time on us when our lives get miserable (causative agents : guys out there..most of the time)

friendship with the opposite sex:
they are usually seem to be more interesting to hang out with...somehow...
but we need to have a borderline in such relationship...crossing the line is always a huge mistake..wandering at the edge would be just nice...no rush..
if this relationship lasts more than couple of years, then probably there wouldn't be any changes in the future.

relationship with the one you love:
if there is a machine which has an ability of recording the graph of this kind of relationship...i guess the fluctuation of this relationshipgram is gonna be worse than what we can see in Torsades de Pointes ECG...
we will only hate someone deeply when he/she was once the one we loved the most...

relationship with the exes:
its complicated.no one else can provide an exact definition of this.

relationship with the bf' exes:
phew~usually ends up more like a battle or a competition between both parties.....
although we might shared the same interest...there might be some resemblances ...
clicking well usually takes place superficially...not any deeper..

relationship with bf's exes' previous ex:
getting too close to them might unconsciously provoke the possibilities of ur bf patching things up with his ex....wat a joke..

moral of the story...
making friends is good..but not to this extent...if so happen that it has to come to this complicated, try not to link things up like what i just did..