Someone commented that i do not really know what i want...
this sentence has been echoing whole day in my mind...what do i really want in my life?
does it really matter in the end???
Everyone thinks that they know what they really want in their lives..but how sure are they that those things they have in mind are really what they really want...naaahh..i do not believe in that and of course i have my reasons to make my stand concrete...
- first of all, human beings are greedy. They get what they want..but they will never appreciate what they already have. When they see others achieve something else, they tend to think that they want the same thing as well. Its the jealousy which is playing its part here..not your own desire !!!
- when you have something which is belonged to you and all of a sudden somebody snatched it away from you. At this very moment, you realize that how much that particular thing means to you and again you think that, that is all you want in your life..you will do everything..what i mean is really everything...to get back what you used to own. Its some kind of possessive behavior or ego which is embedded deep inside...
- its always easier to talk the talk and not walk the walk...yeah..you know what you want, you wish to achieve what you want..but there are always obstacles around..you try your very best to solve things out one after another...in the end..you turn and look back at what you have done ...you wonder, is this really what i want? or was i just chasing blindly for something which i could not achieve before this?
It doesn't matter so much after all...life is short...chasing for what you want does not mean that you are appreciating your life ...
this is one of the reasons which cause us to neglect what we already have...chasing for more will only leads you to discontentment..
happiness is not about obtaining what you really want in life...but to appreciate and enjoy every single moment of having what you are given with in life...even if you cant get what you want in life..you still have the ability to look at the brighter side...and be satisfied ...and believe that He has His reasons for not giving you what you want.Time will tell.
2 comments:
i couldn't help notice the date, when ever your exam time is near, commencing, or during, you will drop by and blog.
coincidence? =)
looks like someone is still troubled. clear up and stand tall, you have other better things to do rather then thinking on something that might not be as important. weight your stuff and work on it.
i m troubled but not because of love affairs..no worries..hahaa...thanks for your advice anyway...
ya...during exam season i tend to be super emo-ed up..
see ya soon =)
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